The first thing you should remember is that the beginning of the year is prime time to make friends. No one has established connections with anyone. That means that you can go in there, and make many friends in a single day or night simply because you started talking to someone. In high school, it may have been a bit tough to approach people when all their friends are around. But in college, no one has friends at the start. Use this idea to your advantage.

Don't be afraid to talk to people. And don't be afraid to listen. Kids are used to unloading on their parents, and when their parents are gone, they are going to need someone to unload on. If you can become that person for someone, they will be your friend for years to come.

Don't sit in your dorm room at night. Video  games are the biggest problem with people just sitting in their rooms all night. Don't be like that. You need to have a leg up on the competition.

Set up study groups. Not only will this help you with classes, but you'll meet people at the same point in their college  careers.

Never lose hope.

Always have faith,

It allows you to cope.

Trying times will pass,

As they always do.

Just have patience,

Your dreams will come true.

So put on a smile,

You'll live through your pain.

Know it will pass,

And strength you will gain 

1. Remember that you won’t live forever.

First and foremost, remember that your time here is limited, and it’s up to you to decide how you’ll use it. When someone survives a near-death experience, they always resolve to live life to the fullest after that moment. But is there any reason you need to wait for a near-death experience? Why not decide to live life to the fullest right now? Simply deciding to do so makes it much easier to figure out how. On the other hand, you could devote your entire life to complaining. It’s really up to you.

2. Write down what you’re thankful for.

Keep a small journal to record things that come to mind. Don’t feel that you can only write down major things like moving into a new house, or having a baby. It will be much more beneficial if you set the bar really low, and feel free to write down small things like finding a penny on the street, or making it through an intersection just before the light turned yellow. It’s not really the act of writing  these things down that matters, so much as the habit of being on the lookout for things you can write down. When you get in the habit, you’ll be seeing and appreciating many things you might not even have noticed before.

3. Think about what it was like long ago.

Instead of complaining that you can’t find anything good on TV despite your DVR and hundreds of digital cable channels, remember that 60 years ago you might not have been able to afford a TV at all. Instead of complaining that it costs too much to fill up your car’s tank, remember that 100 years ago you would have been lucky if your car even had an engine. Instead of complaining that your house doesn’t have enough square footage or a skylight, remember that 3,000 years ago you would have been living under a tent made of animal hides.

It’s pretty easy to see that you were lucky enough to be born at a great time. Of course, some people think certain times in the past were better. I know one person who always complains that the post office used to deliver his mail twice a day, and now it’s only once a day. That’s one perspective, but another is that because of the internet, we now only need one delivery a day, and thereby save taxpayer money. A lot depends on our own perspective.

4. Think about how much worse it could be.

When you look at your life compared to whoever you think has the perfect life, there probably isn’t really that much of a difference. Someone could be a billionaire, but then they also have the stress that comes with it. Someone could be famous, but then they never have any privacy. Some people will do a little better than others, but how much do you really have to complain about?

The fact is, you’re probably doing very well by global standards. If you’re reading this article, then apparently you have internet access, you have proficiency in one of the most widely-spoken languages in the world, you have free time to read blogs, and you have an interest in self-improvement. These are great things to have, and not everyone has them. Most likely you never have to worry about having enough to eat, and many people in the world would consider that a great luxury.

Final Thoughts

I’m not suggesting that you stop trying to improve and be all you can be. But a lot of the time, we get so focused on trying to make our lives better that we forget to appreciate what we already have. If you’re obsessed with reaching some finish line off in the distance, you’ll spend your whole life

trying to get there, and then realize at the very end that you missed a lot along the way. Don’t do that; be appreciative now.

And a heaven in a wild fllower, 

Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,

And eternity in an hour . 

I dream that all the children will walk in peace and harmony.

I dream that all the nations will shake hands with each other,

protect each other and help each other.

I dream that our beautiful planet will not be destroyed.

It took billions of years to produce this planet

and it's so beautiful, so wonderful;

I dream it will continue, but in peace, beauty, and love.

It is most mad and moonly
And less it shall unbe
Than all the sea which only
Is deeper than the sea

Love is less always than to win
Less never than alive
Less bigger than the least begin
Less littler than forgive

It is most sane and sunly
And more it cannot die
Than all the sky which only
Is higher than the sky

we want the other persons to have a life filled

with enough good things to sustain them.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirits up.

I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys

in life appear much bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you

through the final Goodbye.

Holding you up
When you are weak
Helping you find what
it is you seek

Catching your tears
When you cry
Pulling you through
when the tide is high

Absorbing your voice
When you talk
Standing by when you
learn to walk

Just being there
Through thick and thin
All just to say:
you are my friend

Like crude jade undiscovered on a barren hill
Thanks to Your deft craftsmanship
It radiates the charm of a gem
Like drizzle dropping into mud
By Your loving radiance
It soars up to the universe!

Where we swim as free as fishes

While my heart yearns for a little tenderness

You hold me tightly in the embracing ocean

I thoroughly melt in Your bosom

Intoxicated in the waves of love.

Never would I be separated

From You

Drifting to the wide hill top of my home town.

How I wish that I could become a light breeze,

Conveying the gentle greetings in my heart.

How I wish that I could become a bouquet,

Softly sending out a sweet fragrance.

How I wish that I could become a butterfly,

Fluttering after Your footsteps

Lost on a sandy beach

Could no longer float

To the other shore.

Lonely, I felt self-pity.

Then one day I awoke

As a heavy rain

Pushed my boat to sea.

Wave after wave,

The boat sailed

When night fell,

Blinking yellow moonlight.

When the sun brightly rose,

The blue ocean glistened.

I was so happy --

My heart sang!

Flying away was my sorrow.

Seeing the other shore,

A small boat floating
On the Ocean of Love.

Where we swim as free as fishes.

While my heart yearns for a little tenderness,

You hold me tightly in the embracing ocean.

I thoroughly melt in Your bosom,

Intoxicated in the waves of love.

Never would I be separated

From You.